In our journey as Christian women, the quest for confidence is often intertwined with our faith. How do we, as believers, harness the power of our faith to cultivate a deep-seated confidence that can withstand life's challenges? The answer lies in the powerful words of Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." This verse is not just a comforting scripture; it's a foundation for building unshakeable confidence.

Let's explore a 3-step journey to building confidence through faith, allowing the truth of Philippians 4:13 to transform our lives.

Step 1: Align Your Heart with His Will

The first crucial step is to understand that confidence in Christ involves aligning our hearts with His divine will. It means daily surrendering our anxieties, desires, and ambitions to God, recognizing that His strength is perfected in our weaknesses. We are not called to rely on our limited capacity but to open ourselves to the infinite power of the Almighty.

Start each day by declaring Philippians 4:13 over your life. Let this verse be your morning mantra: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Emphasize each word as you speak them, allowing their divine strength to infiltrate your actions, decisions, and mindset for the day. Each time you face a struggle or an overwhelming task, visualize Christ Himself infusing you with His strength, enabling you to conquer what seems insurmountable.

Step 2: Maintaining a Rich Prayer Life

Never underestimate the transformative power of prayer. It's our personal line of communication with our Creator, the true source of all strength. In prayer, we seek wisdom, share our concerns, and most importantly, we listen. It's within these sacred and quiet moments that we can hear the gentle whisper of God, affirming His unwavering love and strength. Prayer is the vital connection that ties us directly to this divine source. Make it a daily practice to seek guidance, share your thoughts, and open your heart to listen. In the stillness of prayer, you truly hear the soft, reassuring voice of God, reminding you of His endless love and strength. As you nurture your prayer life, you’ll notice your confidence blossoming, deeply rooted in your growing relationship with your Creator.

Step 3: Incorporating Scripture into Your Life

Finally, immerse yourself in the Word of God. Let scripture be the compass that guides your life, the anchor that steadies you in the storms, and the source of truth that shapes your identity. As you meditate on verses like Philippians 4:13, allow them to penetrate your heart and mind, transforming your thoughts and actions. By aligning your life with God's Word, you'll find an unshakeable confidence that comes from knowing who you are in Christ.

Self-confidence, as often interpreted by society, is frequently tied to external successes, appearances, or the approval of others. However, as Christians, we are called to a more profound standard, one that anchors true strength and confidence in Christ alone. Embracing this Christ-centered confidence allows us to overcome obstacles and soar above life's trials. How can we, as Christian women, weave this promise seamlessly into our daily lives? By recognizing that our confidence is not dependent on our achievements or looks, but instead on the steadfast strength of Christ within us. By incorporating these three essential steps—daily affirmation, prayer, and scripture study—we can nurture a faith-based confidence, empowering us to confront life's challenges with courage and grace.

Remember, confidence is not merely a feeling; it's a way of living that reflects a deep reliance on Christ at every moment. As you embark on this journey of building unshakeable confidence through faith, keep Philippians 4:13 close to your heart. Let it be the light that guides your path, dispelling the darkness of doubt and fear. Embrace the truth that with Christ, limitations crumble, and your potential knows no bounds.

As you walk this path of faith-driven confidence, may you find strength in the knowledge that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. May His love and power infuse every aspect of your life, enabling you to live boldly and confidently in the purpose He has for you. And always let Philippians 4:13 be a permanent fixture in your heart. May this scripture light the way forward, dispelling the annoyances of doubt and fear. Embrace the foundation that with Christ, limitations shatter, and potential is boundless.

Listen to the episode now 

Listen on:  Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify 


I invite you to take these steps with a heart wide open to the extraordinary journey that lies ahead. When fear and doubt knock on your door, stand firm on His promise. Let His reassurance emanate from your core, and build a life that exemplifies the courage and confidence that only come from truly knowing and embracing who you are in Christ.

Click the button below to explore the Faith Building CLUB, an exclusive monthly membership brimming with resources aimed at nurturing and strengthening your faith. Dive into prayer journals, devotionals, Bible lessons, a One-Year Bible reading plan, and so much more.




Simple ways to consistently connect with God...










Empowering Christian women in their spiritual journey with Prayer, Devotions, Personalized Rhythms  & Aromatherapy.




1 Comment

  1. Thank you!
    Paula Behrens AUTHOR  06/18/2025 07:43 PM Central
    Hi Sherri, thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you found the "3 Simple Steps to an Unshakeable Confidence" helpful. Confidence is such an empowering aspect of our lives, and I'm glad these steps resonated with you.

    If you have any questions or want to dive deeper into any of the steps, feel free to reach out. I'm here to support you on your journey towards greater confidence and wellness.

    Stay empowered and keep shining bright!

    Paula

Leave a Comment


Hi friend, I’m Paula

 
… a grandma, pastor and follower of Jesus

I've always felt pulled to the quiet, sacred spaces where transformation happens—not in the spotlight of large ministries, but in the intimate moments of women (and men's) lives. As a spiritual midwife, I walk alongside Christian women, guiding them through the space between struggle and breakthrough, helping them uncover their God-given identity.

Faith, Coaching, and Lived Experience

Unlike many, my approach stems from real-life wisdom, not just theory. 

  • As a Christian coach and certified practitioner in holistic techniques, I draw from my own story to teach others.
  • I believe in the power of small steps that add up over time, like starting with a simple prayer or a moment of journaling amidst the chaos of daily life.
  • Through one-on-one coaching, I help women build sustainable devotional rhythms that bring calm and clarity, transforming overwhelm into opportunities for revelation.
I'm passionate about empowering women to integrate faith into their everyday routines—whether that's balancing family, work, or personal growth. By weaving Scripture with practical self-care strategies, I show how these elements can help you feel more connected to God and at peace in your relationships. As a mom and grandma myself, I understand the profound influence we have on our children and grandchildren, and I love reminding women of the eternal impact of their faithful steps.

Embracing Your Unique Calling

At the heart of my work is a celebration of individuality, inspired by truths like those in Psalm 139:14, which reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I see the God-sized potential in every woman I meet, even when it's hidden under layers of busyness or doubt. My gifts—empathetic listening, biblical insight, and a knack for creating sacred rhythms—serve as bridges between ancient faith and modern life. I encourage you to give yourself room to breathe, to honor your unique path, and to make it doable today by taking those first, gentle steps toward freedom and empowerment.

If you're yearning for a deeper connection with God, more balance in your daily life, and the tools to strengthen your faith, I'm here to guide you. Let's start that journey together—save your seat for an Aroma of Christ Coaching Hour + Peace RESET and discover how small, consistent changes can lead to lasting transformation.


Reverend Paula Behrens
Ordained Pastor, Certified Aroma Freedom Practitioner, Christian Coach & Podcaster (Top 5% Globally)


Contact