Today we're diving into a topic that resonates deeply with many of us: transforming our prayer life through intentionality, specificity, and gratitude. Whether you're just starting your spiritual journey or looking to deepen your existing practices, today's episode is packed with actionable insights and inspiring ideas. So, let's get started!

1 .The Importance of Intentional Prayer

The foundation of a transformative prayer life is intentionality. It's about preparing our hearts and minds for true communion with God. This isn't just about finding a quiet moment in our day; it's about consciously setting aside time to connect with the Divine.

Start by setting a regular time for prayer. This could be in the morning, before bed, or during a lunch break. The key is consistency. By making prayer a habitual part of your day, you're signaling to yourself and to God that this time is sacred and non-negotiable.

As a coach and spiritual mentor, I've found that using essential oils like Frankincense or Sacred Mountain can enhance this sacred time. These oils can help create a serene environment, conducive to deep reflection and connection.

2. Emphasizing Specificity

Specificity is a powerful element that can elevate your prayer life. Instead of vague, general prayers, try to be specific about what you're praying for. Whether it's healing for a loved one, guidance in your career, or strength in your personal life, specificity helps focus your thoughts and intentions.

For instance, instead of saying, "Lord, bless my family," you might say, "Lord, please give my daughter wisdom as she navigates her new job, and help my son find peace amidst his studies." This level of detail not only helps you stay focused but also allows you to see God's hand at work more clearly.

3. Gratitude is equally important

Gratitude is a powerful practice that can transform the way we perceive and interact with the world around us. By beginning your prayer time with expressions of thankfulness, you initiate a mindset that recognizes abundance rather than scarcity. In this state of gratitude, each blessing, irrespective of its size, becomes a building block of a more positive, fulfilling life.

When we thank God for our blessings, we're actively choosing to focus on the good that surrounds us, rather than dwelling on what's lacking. This simple shift from need to abundance fosters a deeper sense of contentment and peace. It's a reminder that there is already plenty for us to appreciate and cherish, which in turn can open our hearts to receive even more goodness.

Moreover, gratitude strengthens our relationship with the divine. It cultivates a profound sense of connection and trust, as we acknowledge that we are supported and guided by a higher power. This trust invites more blessings into our lives as it aligns us with the flow of life’s abundant energy.

As you express gratitude consistently, you'll find your perspective broadening, which not only enhances your personal growth but also positively influences those around you. By making gratitude an integral part of your prayer practice, you transform it into a powerful tool that nurtures and nourishes both your spirit and your relationships.

Scripture and expectation

Scripture is a vital tool for deepening your prayer life. It's not just about reading the words; it's about letting those words resonate in your heart and guide your prayers.

Choose a passage that speaks to your current situation or a theme you're focusing on. Read it slowly, allowing the words to sink in. Then, use it as a springboard for your prayer. You might reflect on a particular verse, asking God to help you understand its meaning in your life.

For example, if you're praying for courage, you might meditate on Joshua 1:9, "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Use this verse to guide your prayer, asking God for the strength and courage you need.

Finally, let's talk about expectation in prayer. This isn't about demanding outcomes or treating God like a vending machine. Instead, it's about trusting in God's goodness and His plan for your life.

When you pray with expectation, you're acknowledging that God hears you and that He is working, even if you can't see it yet. This form of trust can be incredibly liberating and can deepen your faith in profound ways.

For instance, if you're praying for a new job, you might end your prayer with a statement of trust, like, "Lord, I trust that You are guiding me to the right opportunity, and I thank You for Your provision and guidance."

Transforming your prayer life through intentionality, specificity, and gratitude is a journey that can lead to a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with God. By creating a sacred space, incorporating scripture, and adopting journaling practices, you can enhance your spiritual connection and experience the joy of a vibrant prayer life.

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Thank you for tuning in. Until next time, may your prayers be filled with intention, specificity, and gratitude, and may you feel the loving presence of God in every moment. If you know someone who might need an infusion of intentionality and depth in their prayer life, please share this episode with them. And remember, I'm here to support you on your journey.

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Hi friend, I’m Paula

 
… a grandma, pastor and follower of Jesus

I've always felt pulled to the quiet, sacred spaces where transformation happens—not in the spotlight of large ministries, but in the intimate moments of women (and men's) lives. As a spiritual midwife, I walk alongside Christian women, guiding them through the space between struggle and breakthrough, helping them uncover their God-given identity.

Faith, Coaching, and Lived Experience

Unlike many, my approach stems from real-life wisdom, not just theory. 

  • As a Christian coach and certified practitioner in holistic techniques, I draw from my own story to teach others.
  • I believe in the power of small steps that add up over time, like starting with a simple prayer or a moment of journaling amidst the chaos of daily life.
  • Through one-on-one coaching, I help women build sustainable devotional rhythms that bring calm and clarity, transforming overwhelm into opportunities for revelation.
I'm passionate about empowering women to integrate faith into their everyday routines—whether that's balancing family, work, or personal growth. By weaving Scripture with practical self-care strategies, I show how these elements can help you feel more connected to God and at peace in your relationships. As a mom and grandma myself, I understand the profound influence we have on our children and grandchildren, and I love reminding women of the eternal impact of their faithful steps.

Embracing Your Unique Calling

At the heart of my work is a celebration of individuality, inspired by truths like those in Psalm 139:14, which reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I see the God-sized potential in every woman I meet, even when it's hidden under layers of busyness or doubt. My gifts—empathetic listening, biblical insight, and a knack for creating sacred rhythms—serve as bridges between ancient faith and modern life. I encourage you to give yourself room to breathe, to honor your unique path, and to make it doable today by taking those first, gentle steps toward freedom and empowerment.

If you're yearning for a deeper connection with God, more balance in your daily life, and the tools to strengthen your faith, I'm here to guide you. Let's start that journey together—save your seat for an Aroma of Christ Coaching Hour + Peace RESET and discover how small, consistent changes can lead to lasting transformation.


Reverend Paula Behrens
Ordained Pastor, Certified Aroma Freedom Practitioner, Christian Coach & Podcaster (Top 5% Globally)


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