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EMPTY NESTERS: MAKE THIS SEASON THE BEST SEASON IN YOUR LIFE

If you are an empty nester for a soon-to-be-one, you know that it's a phase of life that can come with mixed emotions. On the one hand, you may feel a sense of pride and accomplishment as your children embark on their own journeys. On the other hand, you may feel a sense of loss or loneliness as your home becomes quieter and your daily routines change. If you're experiencing these emotions, know that you're not alone. In fact, many people go through the empty nester experience, and it's a topic that's worth exploring.
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TOP CHOICES FOR EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP

An interesting technique that works within the limbic system of the brain to bring about healthy resolutions to troubling memories, is becoming a top choice for many effective leaders. As more people seek natural and holistic ways to improve their mental health and well-being, this simple, but effective practice, designed by Dr. Benjamin Perkus/Clinical Psychologist, is gaining popularity in various workplace settings.
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BALANCING LIFE AND WORK | BUSY PASTORS

It can be challenging to balance ministerial responsibilities with your own well-being. It can be difficult to find the time and energy to prioritize self-care. But, taking care of "you" is just as important as taking care of others. In this article, I will share some tips for creating and maintaining a personal wellness routine as a busy pastor. We will focus on ways you can achieve a balance in your life and ministry, while also thriving in your role.
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ONE SIMPLE CHANGE TO IMPROVE HEALTH

One of the simplest ways to improve your health is by drinking more waterIn addition to assisting in crucial body functions, drinking plenty of water can provide several health benefits, including supporting digestion and metabolism, enhancing physical performance, promoting weight loss, and protecting cognitive health.
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STOP THE STRESS CYCLE

You and I both know that stress, sleep, and sadness are three words that do not pair well together.
Too much stress usually equals too little sleep, which in turn leaves you more tired, more cranky, and more anxious and stressed out. So how can you stop this vicious cycle? I am excited to share that I am partnering with two ministry associates (chaplain friends) to bring an event called: "What Becomes of the Brokenhearted," where we will be offering advise you and others can accept, deal with, and overcome stress, sadness and depression...


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TACKLE YOUR DAILY TASKS WITH FOCUS AND ENTHUSIASM!

ENGAGE... ENERGIZE... CALM. To engage your mind, energize your body, and calm your emotions, carve out a little quiet time with the Lord, as you breathe in the soul soothing aromas of essential oils. The wonderful combination of prayer and oils offers both relaxation and energizing benefits at the same time, while developing a mind-body connection that cannot be realized in any other way. 
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THE COVENANTAL BOW OF PEACE

God's Promise to humankind: One of the things I enjoy is designing stoles for the clergy. This one is a limited, one of a kind, designer stole. No two stoles in my Designer collection will be exactly the same. Each one sports unique characteristics that distinguishes one from another. This elegantly designed Liturgical stole may be worn during the Ordinary season of the Christian Year. 


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Hi friend, I’m Paula

 
… a grandma, pastor and follower of Jesus

I've always felt pulled to the quiet, sacred spaces where transformation happens—not in the spotlight of large ministries, but in the intimate moments of women (and men's) lives. As a spiritual midwife, I walk alongside Christian women, guiding them through the space between struggle and breakthrough, helping them uncover their God-given identity.

Faith, Coaching, and Lived Experience

Unlike many, my approach stems from real-life wisdom, not just theory. 

  • As a Christian coach and certified practitioner in holistic techniques, I draw from my own story to teach others.
  • I believe in the power of small steps that add up over time, like starting with a simple prayer or a moment of journaling amidst the chaos of daily life.
  • Through one-on-one coaching, I help women build sustainable devotional rhythms that bring calm and clarity, transforming overwhelm into opportunities for revelation.
I'm passionate about empowering women to integrate faith into their everyday routines—whether that's balancing family, work, or personal growth. By weaving Scripture with practical self-care strategies, I show how these elements can help you feel more connected to God and at peace in your relationships. As a mom and grandma myself, I understand the profound influence we have on our children and grandchildren, and I love reminding women of the eternal impact of their faithful steps.

Embracing Your Unique Calling

At the heart of my work is a celebration of individuality, inspired by truths like those in Psalm 139:14, which reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I see the God-sized potential in every woman I meet, even when it's hidden under layers of busyness or doubt. My gifts—empathetic listening, biblical insight, and a knack for creating sacred rhythms—serve as bridges between ancient faith and modern life. I encourage you to give yourself room to breathe, to honor your unique path, and to make it doable today by taking those first, gentle steps toward freedom and empowerment.

If you're yearning for a deeper connection with God, more balance in your daily life, and the tools to strengthen your faith, I'm here to guide you. Let's start that journey together—save your seat for an Aroma of Christ Coaching Hour + Peace RESET and discover how small, consistent changes can lead to lasting transformation.


Reverend Paula Behrens
Ordained Pastor, Certified Aroma Freedom Practitioner, Christian Coach & Podcaster (Top 5% Globally)


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